HUSBAND

He had an affair and threatened divorce. Carolyn Hax readers advise his spouse, who's looking for hope that "he can muster love for me again."

Video of former House Speaker Nancy Pelosi's husband, Paul, being attacked will be made public following a ruling by a California judge. The Transportation Dept. is examining whether Southwest Airlines knowingly over-sold flights last month, leading to a nationwide travel meltdown. Southwest blames the disruption on winter weather. And doctors in Texas separated conjoined twins in a historic 11-hour surgery. Both babies are recovering well.

Kate Beeden told her husband she was bisexual and then pansexual years after marrying him. Now, they attend LGBTQ support groups together.

It is unclear how many others are missing and hundreds of rescuers are at the scene.

DEAR ABBY: My husband was the love of my life. I lost him to COVID eight months ago. We were together for 20 years. I know without a doubt that my husband loved me, but during our marriage he had several affairs. He was always sorry for his indiscretions and would shower me with gifts

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have been married 45 years. I seem to be the last person he wants to do anything with. -- LONELY IN MINNESOTADEAR LONELY: Could you possibly develop an interest in any of the hobbies your husband enjoys? DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have two close friends. Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.

“How to Murder Your Husband: The Nancy Brophy Story” premieres tonight at 8/7c on Lifetime. About the movie:Inspired by true events, Lifetime’s “How to Murder Your Husband: The Nancy Brophy Story” follows author Nancy Crampton-Brophy. This made for riveting romances; but for Nancy, the cathartic thrill didn’t just stop at the end of the page. In 2022, Brophy was actually tried and convicted of killing her husband, making the nature of her novels all too real. Starring Cybill Shepherd, “How to Murder Your Husband: The Nancy Brophy Story” details the shocking events that spiraled from publishing in Portland to real-life homicide.

Dear Amy: My husband and I own a small family business, but we don’t run the day-to-day operation. Dear Amy: I am a nurse who has worked the night shift for almost 30 years. My mother read in a pseudo-scientific (supermarket check-out lane) magazine that night shift workers are at risk for sudden death. She constantly quizzes me on my work schedule, and then carries on when I admit that I am (STILL) working the night shift. – Night Shift WoesDear Night Shift: A good friend of mine recently recounted how she copes with her elderly mother’s ruminating on one topic.

Mom wants to salvage her relationship with her son after having to fire him from the family business because of poor work performance.

Dear Annie: My husband and I have been married for almost 29 years. My dilemma is that although we have been married so long, we have had more downs than ups, especially this past year. I love him, but I’m not sure if I’m in love anymore. Interestingly, you signed your letter, “Unsure in Love,” not “Unsure About Love.” I think you really want to be in love again. Annie Lane’s second anthology -- featuring favorite columns on marriage, infidelity, communication and reconciliation -- is available as a paperback and e-book.

I want to add a storage unit, but he says it will sully the view

The letter-writer's husband wants to back out of having his elderly mom move in with them — but he isn't telling her that.

Dear Amy: For the last two years my husband and I have lived in separate homes while working on our marriage. I just found out that during that time my husband had an affair with his colleague and conceived a baby. I don’t know what to do. Do you define this as “working on your marriage?” Is this evidence of him working on the marriage? You can email Amy Dickinson at askamy@amydickinson.com or send a letter to Ask Amy, P.O.

Letter writer wonders if there is a way forward after her husband had another baby while they were separated.

Dear Annie: I could’ve written the letter from “Divorce Ambivalent” many, many years ago when our three children were young. ), and he was a good husband, provider and an honorable man. Dear Annie: I am writing regarding the letter from a wife who is experiencing a “blah marriage” due to being alone because her husband’s job requires that he travel frequently. I believe every marriage experiences “blah” times, and it is no reason to divorce, because the situation is temporary. Annie Lane’s second anthology -- featuring favorite columns on marriage, infidelity, communication and reconciliation -- is available as a paperback and e-book.

A 55-year-old woman was arrested in South Carolina after police say she physically attacked her husband when she found indecent photos on his phone during vacation.

DEAR ABBY: I have a much younger friend in another state, and we like to keep in touch. I prefer email, as I’m elderly, hard of hearing and look after my husband, who is having cognitive problems. Each time I email, she says she “longs to hear my voice” and asks if she can call me. DEAR ABBY: My husband is the oldest of five, with four younger adult sisters. -- LOVE, ABBYDear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.

The charity campaigners now have more Christmas number ones than any other act in chart history.

Dear Amy: My husband and I recently celebrated our eighth wedding anniversary. To this day, she will not allow him to tell his grandchildren that he is married to me. You state that your husband’s daughter is “the problem.” I disagree. Charles is recently engaged to be married, but I suspect may still have some feelings for Amanda. You can email Amy Dickinson at askamy@amydickinson.com or send a letter to Ask Amy, P.O.

My husband of 28 years has had a five-year relationship with another woman, and now they’ve had a child together. He sobs uncontrollably because he wants to keep me protected while at the same time saying that he does not want to leave his 5-year-old child and his girlfriend. He wants me to stay in a trailer on the property, so I can be safe, and he wants to move the girlfriend and child into our home of 15 years. I have broken down miserably, and he has, too, but she wants to live in our home! Dear Annie: Please tell “Am I Being Greedy or Gaslit?” with the realtor husband to talk to a lawyer.

As 2022 winds down, we’re looking back at the most-read Carolyn Hax columns of the year.

"The morning of my wedding, I was jolted from sleep by a nightmare. A voice in my head jabbed me with questions: What are you doing?"

"That morning, I’d checked my bank account and realized my husband had visited the ATM at 2 a.m. and taken all our money. I was alone with three kids and $50."

Dear Annie: I’m at a stage in my life where personal growth has taken hold in the absence of my husband. Or should we divorce so I can get away from a blah marriage? -- Divorce AmbivalentDear Divorce Ambivalent: Feeling blah about a marriage is not a reason to get a divorce, but it is a reason to explore ways you can feel more jazzed up or excited about your marriage. Sometimes, when our needs are not being met, we shut down and start to have a blah feeling. Annie Lane’s second anthology -- featuring favorite columns on marriage, infidelity, communication and reconciliation -- is available as a paperback and e-book.

Dear Annie: My husband and I love each other very much, but we have grown apart for a while now. I don’t feel connected to him and feel like we’re more just friends and partners. That if his actions don’t change, it is just empty promises. View prior ‘Dear Annie’ columns“How Can I Forgive My Cheating Partner?” is out now! Annie Lane’s second anthology -- featuring favorite columns on marriage, infidelity, communication and reconciliation -- is available as a paperback and e-book.

He and I have asked her and the rest of his family to wean off from socializing with the ex. Dear Amy: My friend, “Candace” consistently says things about herself that just aren’t accurate. – Biting My TongueDear Biting: If your friend “Candace” consistently talks about her friend “Shelley’s” drinking, this would provide an opening for you to segue to her drinking. Dear Amy: “Bothered in the Bridal Party” felt slighted because his friend the groom demoted him from being “best man” at his wedding and then jokingly referred to him as his “best man,” while calling the replacement best man (and future brother-in-law), as the “better man.”I think both of you failed to catch the joke, which is that the “better” man is the lesser of these options: Good man, better man, best man. – A FanDear Fan: I think you cracked the code (yes, I missed it), and I hope this “best man” can see it this way.

Reader wishes their mother-in-law would stop encouraging a bad dynamic with her son’s ex-wife.

Yulia, the widow of the deputy head of the Pacific Higher Naval School [one of the Russian Navy's two higher educational institutions], Vadim Boyko, wrote an open letter to Russian dictator Vladimir Putin, in which she says that her husband committed "self-execution" after being accused of failing Putin's conscription measures.

Putting him first all the time, despite how much he’s hurt me, is taking a serious toll on my own mental health. I want to end our marriage and create the best life as co-parents for our children that we possibly can. -- Wanting OutDear Wanting Out: You have been through a lot, and of course your husband has been through a lot, too. Whether you decide to stay together, at least you know in your heart that you tried everything you possibly could to make the marriage work. Annie Lane’s second anthology -- featuring favorite columns on marriage, infidelity, communication and reconciliation -- is available as a paperback and e-book.

Jamie Barrow is charged with murdering a mother and two young children who lived on his street.

For more than eight months of Russian occupation, the southern port city of Kherson was cut off from rail service to the rest of Ukraine. On Saturday, train came back.

When I suggest that he may have a hearing problem and should see a doctor, he becomes angry, belligerent and denies there’s anything wrong with him. Our marriage has turned into one big fight. I have asked him to say, “I didn’t hear you. If I don’t hear him clearly, I ask him to repeat what I didn’t hear. How can I convince him that he needs a hearing aid before these fights end our marriage?

Dear Amy: My husband, “Don,” battled substance abuse and addictions, major depression, anxiety, and severe sleep apnea. Don and I also had relationship issues, much like any other married couple after 20 years of marriage.

Dear Amy: My husband and I have been together for 16 years, during which time he has always been obsessed with having his back rubbed. More specifically, it is his back, his legs (if we’re sitting on the couch), and even his neck while riding in the car. I am a people-pleaser. I did this to show him I loved him, and it just became the norm.

DEAR ABBY: My 9-year-old daughter, “Kennedy,” plays volleyball. He wants our daughter to quit a sport she loves so she won’t be “exposed” to something he doesn’t agree with. DEAR ABBY: I had a hard time during the COVID pandemic. Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O.

Dear Amy: My wife became friends with “Barb,” after Barb and her husband “Jim” moved to our remote community a few years ago. I tolerated Jim so we could be friends with Barb. Jim told me that he stalked his wife one night and that he parked outside our house, looking for her. When my conservative friends find fault with any idea that doesn’t coincide with their own narrow-minded beliefs, I say nothing. You can email Amy Dickinson at askamy@amydickinson.com or send a letter to Ask Amy, P.O.

Couple was hopeful when their friend separated from her horrible husband, but now she’s back with him.

She doesn't think her ex-husband should walk their daughter down the aisle because he isn’t contributing to the wedding costs.

A reader wonders if sitting in someone’s driveway to finish a phone conversation is rude.

Dear Amy: My husband and I have a wonderful, stable, and loving relationship. We welcomed a new baby this year. Neither set of our parents live in our state (on the West Coast), and it’s hard not to have a helpful “village” nearby.

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Newlywed Amanda Kitchingman Roban-Cook said her husband was "underwhelmed" by her decoy dress, and teared up when he saw her real black wedding dress.

Dear Annie: My husband and I are in our 70s, and we have our cocktail hour at 6 p.m. every night followed by dinner at 7 or so. One evening, about two weeks ago, our neighbors came to the door at about 6:30 uninvited. They had come, I think (my husband is not clear on the details), to see our recent home improvements. Smooth things over by giving your neighbors a call and inviting them over soon for a proper visit. Annie Lane’s second anthology -- featuring favorite columns on marriage, infidelity, communication and reconciliation -- is available as a paperback and e-book.

Large parts of Britain have no train services as rail workers in several unions walk out.

A study reveals the extent of controlling behaviour in cases where victims are killed by current or ex-partners.

DEAR ABBY: After 40 years of marriage, I just found out my husband has been having an emotional affair, in addition to an actual girlfriend he had 15 years ago. This time, he has only said he is wrong, but he hasn’t offered an apology, nor is he remorseful. I have removed my wedding rings and refuse to go to his family gatherings. I have read that if he doesn’t have remorse and ask for forgiveness, it just won’t work. Moreover, he blames me for his poor, impulsive choices.

One spouse wonders how to react after being physically attacked by the other over taking out the trash.

"Kai was, for a 59-year-old man, incredibly healthy. He ate all the right things, exercised every day, saw doctors regularly. ... But cancer found him anyway."

DEAR ABBY: I have been happily married for 22 years. For the past 10 years, I have been trying to keep a brave face when it comes to my mother-in-law. My husband has told me he talks to her about this, but nothing has changed. I recently told him I would begin speaking to her the way she speaks to me. -- HARD TO STAY KIND IN MARYLAND

DEAR ABBY: My husband was diagnosed with advanced chronic leukemia seven years ago. After two rounds of chemo, he was better for a while but was diagnosed with advanced multiple myeloma a year ago. Everyone in the office is talking about Amy being a cancer survivor and saying we should do something for her. DEAR ABBY: My two sisters live in our old hometown, a five-hour drive from my current home. Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.

People experiencing mental health crises have been being killed by police in America.

The body of a missing Southgate woman was found in Superior Township, officials say. The husband is in custody.

The wife of a Detroit police officer killed in the line of duty Wednesday night says her best friend is gone.

On Monday morning, a wife and husband were found dead inside a Sterling Heights home between Schoenherr and Saal roads.

The house seen in the video above is a total loss, and for Sandy Subyak, her heart was already weighty, having lost her daughter four years ago at the age of 34, and then two weeks ago, Subyak lost her husband.

Shedding her anonymity in an interview with The Associated Press, the wife of the former president of Interpol who disappeared and was imprisoned in China has now chosen for the first time to show her face.

Last summer, we asked: “Are you or your partner pregnant -- or have you delivered in the past few months?” ... “We want to hear from you.”

The associate warden at a federal jail in New York City has been charged with killing her husband at their New Jersey home.

Prince Philip was known for occasional off-the-cuff remarks that could be embarrassing.

Nothing stops Frank Notaft from visiting Lake Pointe Senior Care in Clinton Township. He drives from Warren, sets up a tent, chair, heater and radio to meet with his wife of the past 60 years. Prior to the pandemic, 83-year-old Notaft would come to have lunch, dinner and to hold 80-year-old Nikki’s hand to walk the hallways. AdThe love story is well known inside Lake Point Senior Care and outside. “A lady gave me the tent,” Notaft said.

Police officers and a doorman stand outside the King Edward VII Hospital in London, Friday, Feb. 19, 2021. Buckingham Palace said the husband of Queen Elizabeth II, 99-year-old Prince Philip was admitted to the private King Edward VII Hospital on Tuesday evening after feeling unwell. (AP Photo/Matt Dunham)LONDON – Britain's Prince Philip is expected to stay in a London hospital for several more days after being admitted earlier this week in what Buckingham Palace described as “a precautionary measure.”The 99-year-old husband of Queen Elizabeth II remained Friday in the private King Edward VII's Hospital, where he was admitted on Tuesday evening. Both the queen, 94, and Philip received a first dose of a vaccine against the coronavirus in early January. Philip last had a spell in a hospital when he spent four nights at the King Edward VII in December 2019, where he was treated for a “pre-existing condition” and discharged on Christmas Eve.

This Aug. 19, 2019 photo photo provided by Soha Saade,, shows Soha and her husband Jihad with their children Gemma and Karl, in Miziara, north of Lebanon. (Soha Saade via AP)BEIRUT Soha Saade had not seen her husband since Christmas. The coronavirus pandemic had kept 44-year-old Jihad in Nigeria, where he worked far from his family in Beirut. Together, Jihad and Soha spent 13 days with their daughter, Gemma, as she received treatment. We only had one more day left in the hospital, Soha said.